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Gay Men are Dangerous

“Watch your drinks. Don’t let anyone make you anything.” “Get ready to have orgies everyday.” “You’re going to come back covered in STDs.” This is what they told me before I left for my trip to the BVI, which I’m sure you’re tired of hearing about. My friends and family were worried that someone as…

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Open Relationships

It’s no secret that the couples in open relationships are getting the most action here in the BVI and even though none of them are on my boat, we all hear the stories. We even hear that in the real world one of the couples allows each person to have sex with whoever they want…

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LA Gays vs. DC Gays

The guys I immediately bonded with from the trip were from LA, however most of the guys on the Gay Armada were from DC and it took me some adjustment to understand how they worked. It was interesting to hang around them and take note of how different the conversations were and how life back…

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Confessions of a Callous Cuddler

It’s happening. We’re finally happening. We had one of the same majors back in college, but only knew of each other from across the room. Colton was a big frat star back in the day and I was that kid who raised his hand all the time in class. Nothing seemed likely to happen, until…

The Great Generational Divide

I attend a monthly discussion group held in the West Hollywood Public Library called the Tribe. Here we talk about gay issues or gay fads in the community and how we feel about them and what can be done to either (a) change the trend, (b) change the way we think about it or simply…

Friends with Benefits

I recently engaged in a “Friends with Benefits” relationship and for purposes of this article I will call him Yari. All of my friends were skeptical about the situation and warned me from continuing further. “You’ll develop feelings for him or he’ll develop feelings for you.” “It’ll get messy.” “You’ll get hurt.” Something like this…